Sessions

 

I offer both one to one and couples sessions…

 

One to One Empowerment Sessions

“Julia is a delight. I have had a number of one-2-one sessions with her over the recent months to help me through a difficult time in my life… She has a warmth and tenderness which is all wrapped up very nicely by a beautiful spirit.”  Helen Smith, Brighton.

One to one empowerment sessions offer a held space of support for you to activate the change you want in your life. I will act as a guide to direct you back to the wisdom within you. This journey starts with speaking about what is working and what’s not working in your life. I’ll offer tools and techniques from The Wheel of Consent, Tantra and other embodiment and meditative modalities which work with breath, body, focus and intension depending on what feels right and useful for you. Conscious touch may be a part of what we do; this depends on our agreed boundaries at the start. Each session is unique as each person is individual.

 

Couples Sessions

“My partner Kate and I thoroughly enjoyed ourselves throughout the private couples session…This has helped us gain a much deeper connection and as a result improved our sex life tremendously! I would definitely recommend Julia’s sessions to any couple who are looking to take their relationship to a higher place, trust me you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!” Steve, age 32. Sussex. 

Couples sessions are a place you and your partner can come to “give back” to your special relationship. We begin by looking at what’s working in your relationship, to naming what may need some nurturing. I support you both to come to a sanctuary where I honour you in your relationship, whatever may be going on for you. I’ll offer tools and techniques from The Wheel of Consent, Tantra and other embodiment and meditative modalities which work with breath, body, focus and intension depending on what feels right and useful for you both. Conscious touch may be a part of what we do; this depends on your agreed boundaries at the start. Each session is unique as each couple is individual.

 

Massage Sessions

Perhaps you’ve heard something about Tantric massage and wondered what it is and if it’s for you. Some people are using the word “tantric” as a selling point for erotic massage, but there may be no connection to Tantra whatsoever! I will aim to clarify….

Tantric Massage Brighton seeks to provide an authentic experience for men and women who wish to have a sensuous, full-body massage in an atmosphere of really being taken care of with the possibility to drop into deep relaxation and pleasure. This can bring much enjoyment of your own body and can be deeply healing. When we reclaim our own pleasure this can have a profound affect on our everyday life as our expectations and perception tends to shift towards the positive.

Personal boundaries will be discussed at the start of the session. You may wish to be partially or fully naked. In tantra we want to honour the whole person, and the whole body is seen as equal, and all deserving healthy touch. All of the body has the possibility to feel alive, sensuous and erotic. Sexual energy is the energy of life!

I have been on my own Tantric journey, since 2005. I have also run workshops and sessions in Tantra and intimacy since 2010. Tantra brought many gifts of inviting me to accept myself, to reclaim parts of myself I had turned away from, or disowned. This is particularly true of my sensuality and sexuality which now feels more natural and joyous to me than before Tantra.

I love to create sacred space for you to experience the pleasure and magnificence of your own body. I love to support you in feeling more acceptance and pleasure in all of your body. You will be welcomed with a smile into a safe and comfortable space; time for you to for relaxation and pleasure. The possibility to really feel your own body without having to perform or to give to another.

The particular massage I work with in Brighton is the Taoist style Tantric massage. This provides a truly Tantric journey combining a range of touch from light erotic touch to deeper invigorating strokes. The whole sequence works not only on the physical body, but on the energy channels which can create a powerful opening in body and spirit. Behind the ethos of this Tantric massage is the idea of the “no mind” state. When both the giver and receiver enter into a state of in-the-moment presence it’s possible for the receiver to experience a deep state of bliss and profound pleasure. I love to provide this container for you to experience this expansion and pleasure. By the end of this journey the receiver is often in a state beyond words, feeling deeply relaxed, satiated and in a state of joyful aliveness.

“This is the tantric definition of our sexuality: the return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness. The greatest sexual thrill of all is not a search for thrills, but a silent waiting – utterly relaxed, utterly mindless. One is conscious, conscious only of being conscious. One is consciousness. One is contented but there is no content to it. And then there is great beauty, great benediction”. OSHO.
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Some benefits of Tantric massage:

release shame
increase pleasure
deep relaxation
positive perspective
increase energy levels
personal confidence
Most of us grow up with some sense of sexual shame. This can cause us to feel negative towards ourself, and create difficulty in relationship. Tantra says sexuality is the base of all our life-force. We are all born from sexuality. Until we feel liberated and happy in our sexuality, we will alway be holding back, and unfulfilled. What are you doing to support the joy of your sexuality? I’d be very happy to support you moving into greater acceptance and pleasure in your body. Come and see me if you’d like to go on this fulfilling journey.